When someone passes out of our lives through death we are often distraught at our loss, the loss of the love and friendship, affection and humour of the individual who has gone.
Try to remember as the times move on the good times you shared, witticisms and humour, love and affection that you shared. It has been said by many that nobody is truly gone while they are remembered and this is so...however it is not good to keep someone with you who needs to move on, and only remains, striving to comfort you because of how tightly you cling to their memory. As we accept life we must also accept its antithesis, death is, sadly, as much a part of life as life itself.
Perchance today is the day to let them go, with much love and fond remembrance, never to be forgotten.
"You never get used to grief, it doesn't fade or lessen but you grow accustomed to dealing with it, living with it. It occasionally breaks through at unexpected times, allow this to happen, don't berate yourself that you 'should be over it by now'. Let the tears fall and the heart ease. Remember that each day is a challenge."
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